Doesn't the bluetooth simply active the "hands-free" mode on your Blackberry? My 2009 CRV couldn't come with Bluetooth... but I know on my wife's 2010 RAV4 you just hit the BT button and it puts the blackberry into handsfree mode over the car's speakers and uses the car's microphone. Your blackberry should ask "Say a Command" and then you just say "Call xxxx" and your blackberry (not the CRV) should then recognize the name, confirm with you, and then ask which number to dial (home, mobile, work, etc). At least that's how BT works with my BB in the RAV4...Bluetooth is nice, but integrating my Blackberry address book is tedious. You have to give a spoken name for each and every phone number listed. It will take forever! (is there a quicker way?).
By the way... as owners of both I totally love the CRV over the RAV. The drive on the CRV is so much smoother and all the parts feel just so robust... from the door handles to the steering wheel to the drive quality.